Wednesday, August 27, 2025

每一张平静的面孔之下都隐藏着一场你看不见的战斗。

 用肉眼观察,当你看到一群人聚集在一个房间里时,似乎每个人都意见一致,相处融洽。你或许会认为每个人都充满了平和、满足和喜悦。但表象是会骗人的。每个微笑背后都有一个故事。每张平静的面孔下都隐藏着一场你看不见的战斗。


人们外表看似安好,但很多人的内心都在进行着看不见的斗争。他们不仅仅是经济拮据、健康不佳或人际关系不佳,还有更深层次的问题。你看,生活不仅仅是外在的环境。是的,我们会经历艰难困苦。我们失业,我们面临疾病,我们经历心碎。但在这些表面的挣扎之外,还有一场更加私人化、更加隐形的战争。


 肉体与圣灵的争战。


无论是否表露,每个人都会面临这种争战。


加拉太书 5:17 让我们深刻地洞察这场日常的挣扎。


因为情欲和圣灵相争,圣灵的情欲和情欲相争。


情欲和圣灵是彼此对立,不断冲突的。所以,作为信徒,你们不能总是去做你们想要做的善事。


这节经文很有力量,因为它揭示了我们生活中的张力。作为人类,我们既是肉体,又是灵魂。我们属世的本性,圣经称之为肉体,自然倾向于自私、骄傲、情欲、急躁、嫉妒,以及许多其他使我们远离上帝的东西。


 但是,我们的灵,被神唤醒的那一部分,却被圣洁、爱、谦卑、祷告和公义所吸引。于是,一场冲突就此诞生。


你的灵想要祷告,渴望花时间与神同在。


但你的身体突然感到疲惫或分心。


你的灵想要读圣经,聆听主的声音,但你的肉体却提醒你手机上的通知、你想看的电视节目,或你忘记做的家务。


这种内心的抗拒并非偶然。这是讨神喜悦与取悦肉体之间的自然对立。这种挣扎每天都在发生。


而敌人最希望的就是你忽视这场争战。他想让你认为,你的分心、你的懒惰、你游移不定的心只是性格特征或无害的习惯。


 但事实上,它们是你的精神要么被强化,要么被压制的战场。那么我们该怎么办?我们如何赢得这场内心的战争?

加拉太书 5:24 给了我们答案。凡是基督耶稣的人,是已经把肉体连肉体的邪情私欲同钉在十字架上了。我们若靠圣灵得生,就当靠圣灵行事。


凡属基督耶稣的人,必须把肉体钉在十字架上。这意味着我们不能让肉体引领我们。


我们不让情绪、诱惑或世俗的渴求决定我们如何生活。相反,我们要把它们降服于神。我们要在这些欲望扼杀我们的呼召之前将其消灭。


想想“钉在十字架上”这个词。


钉十字架不是一件轻松的事。它带来的不便可想而知。它是古代世界最残酷的死亡方式。它意味着被钉在木制十字架上,双臂张开,身体因自身重量而悬空,承受着难以忍受的痛苦。


所以,当保罗说我们必须把肉体钉在十字架上时,他指的不是一个舒适或轻松的过程。 他谈论的是痛苦、刻意且往往缓慢的事情。


舍己并非快速或愉快的事。它意味着放弃当下美好的事物,去获得永恒的。


它意味着对骄傲、情欲、懒惰、苦毒、嫉妒、贪婪说不,即使它们令人痛苦,好让基督完全活在我们里面。


不,这并不意味着我们不再是人。这并不意味着我们永远不会挣扎或失败,而是意味着我们拒绝让肉体控制我们的决定。我们行在灵里。


我们让圣灵引导我们、塑造我们,并从内而外更新我们。


因为事实是,你的身体是暂时的。你的欲望会消逝。你肉体所渴望的东西永远不会完全满足。但你的灵,你永恒的部分,是为了与神交通而造的。 只有顺着圣灵而行,你才能体验到真正的自由。罗马书8:6提醒我们:“体贴肉体的就是死;体贴圣灵的乃是生命、平安。” 当我们为这个世界而活时,我们收获的只有压力、空虚和灵性的衰败。


但当我们为神而活,当我们让圣灵引导我们时,我们会找到超越理解的平安,找到不受环境影响的喜乐。即使在软弱的时候,我们也能找到力量。


所以,弟兄姐妹们,我劝你们,不要忽视你们内心的争战。不要把那些日常的小争战视为无关紧要。


当你选择祷告而不是安逸,选择圣经而不是分心,选择信心而不是恐惧时,那就是胜利。 当你否认肉体并顺服神旨意时,转变就发生了。


钉死肉体并不意味着完美。


这意味着追求。  


这意味着即使身处困境,你也要继续选择耶稣。


即使跌倒,你也会重新站起来。


即使你的心疲惫不堪,你也会回到永不干涸的井边。


我们该如何实际做到这一点呢?


滋养你的灵魂,胜过滋养你的肉体。


花时间研读神的话语,敬拜神,祷告祷告。

禁戒那些满足错误欲望的事物。

断绝那些让你远离神的一切。

与能磨练你灵性的人为伍,并对上帝诚实。告诉他你的软弱之处。请他坚固你。


亲爱的朋友,人生不易。争战是真实的,胜利也是真实的,而且已经在耶稣基督里得胜了。紧紧抓住他。行在圣灵里。


让十字架不仅仅是一个象征,而是你的生活方式。


每天死去,你就能活得完全。


因为到最后,重要的不是你今生取得了多少成就或积累了多少,


而是你为基督做了什么,这才是永恒的。


现在,让我们一起祷告。


主耶稣,坚固我的灵。我承认我的肉体软弱,它常常把我拉向与你的旨意相反的方向。我的身体疲惫不堪,分心,渴望舒适和安逸。 但是主啊,我不想被我的肉体所辖制。我要将它钉在十字架上。我要使它顺服你的真理。我要跟随你,耶稣。所以我祷告,主啊,求你帮助我胜过我的肉体。赐我恩典抵挡它的冲动和冲动。帮助我不被短暂的情绪或世俗的欲望所控制。


让我的决定由圣灵引导,而不是由我的欲望引导。


让我的行为反映天国,而不仅仅是地球。即使是祷告或读你的话语这样最简单的事,我的肉体也在抗拒。


有些时候我真心想寻求你,但我的身体却用分心、懒惰或借口把我拉走。主啊,我把这份挣扎带到你面前。帮助我。帮助我克服这份抗拒。


帮助我,即使我不想祷告的时候也要祷告。


帮助我,即使其他所有事情都显得更紧迫。 我知道这些是塑造我属灵生命的争战。我不想输掉它们。主啊,我要忠心。耶稣,这场我身体与灵之间的争战很艰难,但我相信你比我更强大。


我相信靠着你,我能赢。


我相信你能赐给我力量,让我每一天都能得胜。你在圣经里说过:“那在我里面的,比那在世界上的更大。”


所以我现在要持守这应许。


主啊,我求你,让我不再作罪的奴仆。

求祢不要让我被旧习惯、隐藏的瘾症或不义的思想所捆绑。


求祢释放我,使我脱离一切阻碍我靠近祢的事物。


我要行在圣洁中。


我要活在纯洁的心灵中。


求祢唤醒我的灵魂。


求祢更新我的心思意念。


求祢的生命见证我已向世界死了,并向基督活过来。


祢的话语在加拉太书中说,圣灵所结的果子,就是仁爱、喜乐、和平、忍耐、恩慈、良善、信实、温柔、节制。


主啊,我要结出果子来,向世人显明我属于祢。


求祢让这些美德在我的生命中成长。让它们从我的心中流淌出来。求祢教导我好好去爱。求祢教导我,即使在艰难困苦中,也能活在喜乐中。


求祢让平安保守我的心思意念。求祢让忍耐掌管我的反应。 让恩慈从我的唇边流淌,让良善成为我生命的旗帜,让忠诚标记我的决定,让温柔软化我的力量,让自制掌控我的选择。耶稣,我想要更像你。你在罗马书8章中的话提醒我,因为你们若顺从肉体活着,必要死;若靠着圣灵治死身体的恶行,必要活着。所以我祈求,圣灵,帮助我治死那些扼杀我灵的东西。


帮助我停止喂养那些使我软弱的东西。


让我被你的声音引导。


你没有给我胆怯的心。


你没有收养我为奴。


你使我成为儿子。


我不再是外人。


我不再是局外人。


我是你的孩子。


 你是我的父,我的护卫,我的守护者,我的君王。


因此,我祈求恩典,使我真正活出充满灵性力量的生活。


当诱惑来临时,我祈求恩典说“不”。我祈求恩典,使我远离那些光鲜亮丽却不能荣耀你的事物。


当世界充满污秽时,我祈求恩典,使我行走在纯洁之中。


主啊,我祈求恩典,使我在你里面找到满足。不在于人,不在于财产,也不在于享乐。


耶稣,你就足够了。


你一直都足够了。


让我的心不再追逐任何其他东西,仿佛它能比你更让我满足。


让我唯一的真挚热情就是服侍你。


让我心中燃烧的渴望,是用我的思想、我的言语、我的时间和我的生命来荣耀你。


我弃绝一切与你相抗衡的事物。我拒绝一切形式的偶像崇拜。 无论是地位、人际关系、财富、舒适还是控制,我都将其放在您的脚下。唯有您是我的君王。唯有您坐在我心灵的宝座上。我拒绝不洁,因为我想行在公义中。我拒绝愤怒,因为我想行在和平中。我拒绝嫉妒和妒忌,因为我想行在爱中。我拒绝骄傲,因为我想行在谦卑中。我拒绝纷争,因为我想成为和平缔造者。主啊,帮助我自制。


教我说话前先停顿。教我抵制报复的冲动。


教我以恩典回应。


让我充满对他人的同情。


帮助我对那些难以去爱的人保持耐心。


帮助我即使在受伤时也能宽恕。


让我的生活反映出您所展现的怜悯。

耶稣,我的灵愿意。它想要跟随你。它想要顺服。


但有时我的肉体疲惫。有时我力不从心。


所以我祈求你重新触摸我。我相信你只需轻轻一碰就能改变一切。


主啊,触摸我。更新我。


唤醒我的灵,让我感受到你的同在。让你的烈火烧尽我身上所有不顺服的部分。


让你的圣洁炼净我。


让你的怜悯引导我更深。


凭着信心,我得到了我需要的力量。


我得到了我一直祈求的平安。


我得到了战胜肉体的恩典,以及唯有与圣灵同行才能得到的喜乐。


我奉耶稣基督的名作此祷告。

奉你圣洁大能的名祷告。

阿们。


Beneath every quiet face is a battle you cannot see.

To the naked eye, when you look at a group of people gathered in a room, it might seem like everyone is on the same page. It might look like they're all in harmony. You might assume that everyone is full of peace, contentment, and joy. But appearances can be deceiving. Behind every smile is a story. Beneath every quiet face is a battle you cannot see. 

People may look like they're fine on the outside, but within many are  fighting unseen wars. Not just struggles with their finances, struggles with their health or struggles with their relationships, but struggles with something even deeper. You see, life is not only about external circumstances. Yes, we go through hard times. We lose jobs, we face illnesses, we deal with heartbreak. But beyond those surface level struggles is a much more personal and invisible  war. 

The battle between the flesh and the spirit. 

And this is something every single  person faces whether they show it or not. 

Galatians 5:17 gives us profound insight into this daily struggle. 

For the sinful nature has its desire  which is opposed to the spirit. And the desire of the spirit opposes the sinful nature. 

For these two, the sinful nature and the spirit are in direct opposition to each other, continually in conflict. So that you as believers do not always do whatever good things you want to do. 

This verse is powerful because it exposes the tension we live with. As human beings, we are both body and spirit. Our earthly nature, what the Bible calls the flesh, is naturally inclined towards selfishness, pride, lust, impatience, envy, and so many other things that pull us away from God. 

But our spirit, that part of us that has been awakened by God, is drawn to holiness, love, humility, prayer, and righteousness. And so a conflict is born. 

Your spirit wants to pray. It longs to spend time with God. 

But your body suddenly feels exhausted or distracted. 

Your spirit wants to read the Bible and hear from the Lord, but your flesh reminds you of a notification on your phone, a TV show you want to watch, or a chore you forgot to do. 

This inner resistance is not accidental. It is the natural opposition between   what pleases God and what pleases the flesh. This struggle happens daily. 

And the enemy would love nothing more than for you to ignore this battle. He wants you to think that your  distractions, your laziness, your wandering heart are just personality traits or harmless habits. 

But in truth, they are the battlegrounds where your spirit is being either strengthened or silenced. So what do we do? How do we win this war within ourselves? 

Galatians 5: 24 gives us the answer. And those who are Christs have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live in the spirit, let us also walk in the spirit.

Those who belong to Christ must crucify the flesh. That means we don't let our flesh lead. 

We don't let our emotions, temptations, or earthly cravings decide how we live. Instead, we surrender them to God. We kill those desires before they kill our calling. 

Think about the word crucified. 

Crucifixion was not a light thing. It wasn't a small inconvenience. It was the most brutal form of death in the ancient world. It involved being nailed to a wooden cross, arms stretched wide, body suspended under its own weight in excruciating pain. 

So when Paul says we must crucify the flesh, he's not talking about a comfortable or easy process. He is talking about something painful, deliberate, and often slow. 

Dying to self isn't quick or pleasant. It means letting go of what feels good in the moment to gain what is eternal. 

It means saying no to pride, lust, laziness, bitterness, jealousy, greed, even when it hurts, so that Christ may live fully through us. 

And no, this doesn't mean we stop being human. It doesn't mean we never struggle or fail, but it does mean that we refuse to let the flesh control our decisions. We walk in the spirit. 

We let the Holy Spirit lead us, shape us, and renew us from the inside out. 

Because the truth is, your body is temporary. Your desires will fade. The things your flesh craves will never fully satisfy. But your spirit, that eternal part of you, was made for communion with God. And it is only by walking in the spirit that you will experience true freedom. Romans 8:6 reminds us, "To set the mind on the flesh is death, but to set the mind on the spirit is life and peace." When we live for this world, we reap only stress, emptiness, and spiritual decay. 

But when we live for God, when we let the Spirit guide us, we find peace that surpasses understanding, we find joy that isn't dependent on  circumstances. We find strength even when we're weak. 

So l urge you, brothers and sisters, do not neglect the war within you. Don't dismiss those small daily battles as insignificant. 

The moment you choose prayer over comfort, choose scripture over distraction, choose faith over fear, that's a victory. The moment you deny your flesh and submit to God's will, that's how transformation happens. 

Crucifying the flesh doesn't mean perfection. 

It means pursuit. 

It means you keep choosing Jesus even when it's hard. 

Even when you stumble, you get back up. 

Even when your heart grows weary, you return to the well that never runs dry. 

And how do we do this practically? 

Feed your soul more than you feed your flesh. 

Spend time in the word, in worship, in prayer. 

Fast from things that feed the wrong desires. 

Cut off what pulls you away from God. 

Surround yourself with people who sharpen your spirit and be honest with God. Tell him where you're weak. Invite him to strengthen you. 

Dear friend, this life is not easy. The battle is real, but so is the victory, and it has already been won in Jesus Christ. Hold on to him. Walk in the spirit. 

Let the cross be not just a symbol, but the lifestyle you carry. 

Die daily and you will live fully. 

Because in the end, it is not about how many things you achieved or accumulated in this life. 

It is about what you did for Christ. That is what will last. 

Now, let's take a moment to pray together. 

Lord Jesus, strengthen my spirit. I confess that my flesh is weak and often it pulls me in the opposite direction of your will. This body of mine, it gets tired. It gets distracted and it craves comfort and ease. But Lord, I don't want to be governed by my flesh. I want to crucify it. I want to bring it into submission to your truth. I want to follow you, Jesus. So I pray, Lord, help me overcome my flesh. Give me grace to resist its urges and impulses. Help me not to be controlled by temporary emotions or worldly desires. 

Let my decisions be led by the spirit, not led by my appetite. 

Let my actions reflect heaven, not just earth. Even in the simplest things like praying or reading your word, my flesh resists. 

There are moments where l truly want to seek you, but my body pulls me away with distractions, laziness, or excuses. Lord, I bring that struggle to you. Help me. Help me to push past that resistance. 

Help me to pray even when l don't feel like it. 

Help me to open your word even when everything else feels more urgent. I know these are the battles that shape my spiritual life. I don't want to lose them. I want to be faithful, Lord. Jesus, this war between my body and my spirit is hard, but I believe you are stronger. 

I believe that through you, I can win. 

I believe you can give me the strength to overcome every single day. You said in your word that "greater is he who is in me than he who is in the world". 

So l hold on to that promise right now. 

I ask you, Lord, let me no longer be a slave to sin. 

Let me not be bound to old habits,  hidden addictions, or unrighteous thoughts. 

Set me free from anything that keeps me from you. 

I want to walk in holiness. 

I want to live with purity of heart. 

Let my soul be awakened. 

Let my mind be renewed. 

Let my life be a testimony that I have died to the world and come alive to Christ. 

Your word says in Galatians that the fruit of the spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness,  faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. 

Lord, I want to bear fruit that shows the world I belong to you. 

Let these qualities grow in my life. Let them overflow from my heart. Teach me to love well. Teach me to walk in joy even when life is hard. 

Let peace guard my mind. Let patience rule my reactions. Let kindness flow from my lips. Let goodness be the banner over my life. Let faithfulness mark my decisions. Let gentleness soften my strength. Let self-control rule my choices. Jesus, I want to look more like you. And your word in Romans 8 reminds me, for if you live according to the flesh, you will die. But if by the spirit you put to death the misdeeds of the body, you will live. So l ask, Holy Spirit, help me to put to death the things that are killing my spirit. 

Help me to stop feeding what weakens me. 

Let me be led by your voice. 

You did not give me a spirit of fear. 

You did not adopt me into slavery. 

You brought me into sonship. 

l am no longer a stranger. 

I'm no longer on the outside. 

I am your child. 

You are my Father, my Defender, my Keeper, and my King. 

And so l ask for grace to truly live a spirit empowered life. 

Grace to say no when temptation calls. Grace to turn away from things that glitter but don't glorify you. 

Grace to walk in purity when the world embraces impurity. 

Grace to find my contentment in you, Lord. Not in people, not in possessions, or not in pleasures. 

You are enough, Jesus. 

You have always been enough. 

Let my heart never chase after anything else as if it could satisfy me more than you. 

Let my one true passion be to serve you. 

Let the desire that burns in me be to honor you with my thoughts, my words, my time, and my life. 

I renounce anything that rivals you. I say no to idolatry in all its forms. Whether it's status, relationships, wealth, comfort, or control, I lay it all down at your feet. You alone are my King. You alone sit on the throne of my heart. I say no to impurity because I want to walk in righteousness. I say no to anger because l want to walk in peace. I say no to envy and jealousy because I want to walk in love. I say no to pride because l want to walk in humility. I say no to strife because l want to be a peacemaker. Lord, help me to be self-controlled. 

Teach me to pause before I speak. Teach me to resist the urge to retaliate. 

Teach me to respond with grace. 

Fill me with compassion for others. 

Help me to be patient with those who are hard to love. 

Help me to be forgiving even when l'm hurt. 

Let my life reflect the mercy that you've shown me. 

Jesus, my spirit is willing. It wants to follow you. It wants to obey. 

But sometimes my flesh is tired. Sometimes I fall short. 

And so l ask for a fresh touch. I believe that just one touch from you can change everything. 

Touch me, Lord. Renew me. 

Awaken my spirit to your presence. Let your fire burn away every part of me that isn't surrendered. 

Let your holiness refine me. 

Let your mercy draw me deeper. 

By faith, I receive the strength I need. 

I receive the peace I've been praying for. 

I receive the grace to overcome this flesh and the joy that only comes from walking in step with the spirit. 

I seal this prayer in the name of Jesus Christ. 

In your holy and powerful name, I pray. 

Amen. 


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