¹³ Stop Worrying! God Will Fix lt For You ( 13 of 15 )

  Stop Worrying! God Will Fix lt For You ( 13 of 15 )

Tip 13. Be patient and stop comparing yourself to others

Be still before the LORD and wait patiently for him; do not fret when people succeed in their ways, when they carry out their wicked schemes. ~ Psalm 37:7 

Patience is a spiritual quality that is a must for those seeking to beat anxiety. God works on a timetable that we won’t ever understand until we’re up there with him, so it’s up to us to acknowledge in prayer that God is always working for our good, even if we aren’t seeing yet (at least, not in the way we are expecting). 

What’s interesting about this scripture is the focus on comparing ourselves to successful people. Nothing triggers anxiety quite like the realization that we’re behind or missing out (FOMO*, anyone?).

Patience is the ability to look at what others have and trust that what you have right now is exactly what God knows you need, and that your future will bring only what will help you grow closer to him and the people you care about. You don’t need that Tesla right now, is what I’m saying.

FOMO stands for Fear of missing out

Fear of missing out is the feeling of apprehension that one is either not in the know about or missing out on information, events, experiences, or life decisions that could make one's life better. FOMO is also associated with a fear of regret, which may lead to concerns that one might miss an opportunity for social interaction, a novel experience, a memorable event, profitable investment, or the comfort of loved ones ...

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别再忧虑！上帝会为你解决一切（15条建议中的第13条）

建议13：保持耐心，不要与他人比较

“当默然倚靠耶和华，耐性等候他；不要因那道路通达的，和那恶谋成就的，心怀不平。”（诗篇37:7）

耐心是一种属灵的品质，对于那些想要战胜焦虑的人来说至关重要。上帝的作为自有其时间表，我们只有与他同在才能完全理解。因此，我们应当在祷告中承认，上帝始终在为我们谋求益处，即使我们尚未看到（至少没有以我们预期的方式看到）。

这段经文的有趣之处在于它强调了将自己与成功人士比较的重要性。没有什么比意识到自己落后或错失良机更能引发焦虑了（FOMO*，有人感同身受吗？）。

 耐心是一种能力，它让你能够审视他人所拥有的，并相信你现在所拥有的正是上帝知道你真正需要的，你的未来只会带来那些能帮助你与上帝和你所爱之人更加亲近的事物。我的意思是，你现在并不需要那辆特斯拉。

FOMO 代表“害怕错过”。(Fear of missing out)

害怕错过是一种焦虑，担心自己不了解或错过了能够改善生活的信息、事件、经历或人生抉择。FOMO 也与害怕后悔有关，这可能导致人们担心自己会错过社交互动、新奇体验、难忘事件、有利可图的投资或与亲人相处的机会……