1.Instead of loving myself most i am willing to love Christ Jesus best and others more than myself.
Love in the true sense is not a soft, sentimental emotion, though feelins are present. Love is a deliberate act of my will. Yes, you must use your will to love some one or some thing or it. Love means that I am willing to lay down my life, lay myself out, put myself out on behalf of another.
The moment I deliberately do something definite for others that costs me something, I am expressing love. Love is "self-lessness" or "self-sacrifice" in contradistinction to "selfishness" or "self-preservation."
Once you discover the delight of doing love than you are living.