Do Not Make These Five 5 Mistakes

 DO NOT MAKE THESE FIVE MISTAKES WHEN LIFE STARTS CHANGING 

When GOD starts blessing you, be careful. Every blessing comes with a test. Test of your heart, your wisdom and your discipline.

Here are 5 Mistakes you must avoid, when GOD begins to lift you up.

MISTAKE NUMBER ONE. Helping too fast without thinking. Don't be too quick to help people. The moment they see you're doing well, they'll rush to you the way ants rush to sugar. Be kind but be wise. Being nice is good, but being careless with your kindness will drain you. Don't over extend yourself or believe every pity story. People often forget your help, once you're no longer useful, learn to say no without guilt.

MISTAKE NUMBER TWO. Talking too much about your blessings. When God is moving you up, move in silence. Don't announce every good thing happening to you. Don't rush to post it on social media or boast ( or just sharing ) around. If you buy a house , keep quiet. If you get promoted, keep quiet. Not everyone is happy for you. Some smiles are fake. Some cheers are hollow. The more you talk about your progress, the more envy you attract. Silence protect your peace, privacy, and your plans. 

MISTAKE NUMBER THREE. Getting too comfortable. Many people are doing well today because of the effort they made yesterday. But now they stopped pushing. Success fades when you stop working. Keep going, even after you've achieve something. Remember, others are working to take your place. Comfort leads to decline, but consistency sustain your success.

MISTAKE NUMBER FOUR. Forgetting the source of your blessings. Never forget who made it possible. Some people pray day and night when they're struggling, but the moment life gets better, they forget GOD. Don't let success distance you from your CREATOR. Remember how far HE brought you. How many battles HE helped you win. And how many doors HE opened,  when everyone else said no. Stay humble, stay thankful and keep GOD at the center of your journey. And this is the most important.

MISTAKE NUMBER FIVE. Ignoring your parents. Never forget the people who stood by you before the blessings came. Your parents prayed for you. Sacrificed their comfort and carried your dreams in their hearts. Don't get so busy that you forget the ones who built your foundations. Their blessing and prayers are part of your success story. Honour them while you still can. So when GOD blesses you, stay humble, be wise with your kindness, be silent with your progress, grateful to your parents and faithful to your GOD. Because the same grace that lifted you up can also test how you carry it. And thank GOD for HIS blessings. 

当生活开始改变时，切勿犯这五种错误

当上帝开始赐福于你时，务必谨慎。每一份祝福都伴随着考验，考验你的内心、智慧和自律。

以下是上帝开始提携你时，你必须避免的五种错误。

错误一：不假思索地帮助他人。不要急于帮助别人。一旦他们看到你过得好，就会像蚂蚁追逐糖一样蜂拥而至。要善良，但也要明智。善良固然好，但随意施舍会让你精疲力竭。不要过度付出，也不要轻信他人的怜悯之情。人们往往会忘记你的帮助，一旦你不再有用，就要学会坦然地说“不”。

错误二：过多地谈论你所得到的祝福。当上帝提携你时，要默默前行。不要到处宣扬发生在你身上的每一件好事。 不要急着在社交媒体上炫耀（或者到处分享）。如果你买了房子，保持低调。如果你升职了，也保持低调。并非每个人都为你感到高兴。有些笑容是虚假的，有些欢呼是空洞的。你越是谈论自己的进步，就越容易招致嫉妒。沉默才能守护你的平静、隐私和计划。

错误三：过于安逸。许多人今天取得成功是因为他们昨天的努力。但现在他们却停止了前进。成功会在你停止努力时消逝。即使你已经取得了一些成就，也要继续前进。记住，其他人正在努力取代你的位置。安逸会导致衰落，而坚持不懈才能让你保持成功。

错误四：忘记你所拥有的福气的源泉。永远不要忘记是谁成就了这一切。有些人在困境中日夜祈祷，但一旦生活好转，他们就忘记了上帝。不要让成功使你远离你的造物主。记住祂带领你走了多远。记住祂帮助你赢得了多少场战斗。 当所有人都说“不”的时候，祂为你打开了多少扇门？保持谦卑，保持感恩，让上帝成为你人生旅程的中心。这才是最重要的。

第五个错误：忽略你的父母。永远不要忘记那些在你获得祝福之前就一直支持你的人。你的父母为你祈祷，牺牲自己的舒适，并将你的梦想珍藏在心底。不要因为忙碌而忘记那些为你打下基础的人。他们的祝福和祈祷是你成功故事的一部分。趁现在还能感恩他们，就好好珍惜吧。所以，当上帝赐福于你时，保持谦卑，明智地运用你的善意，低调地分享你的进步，对父母心存感激，对上帝保持忠诚。因为那份将你高举的恩典，也会考验你如何承受它。感谢上帝的祝福。