Friday, June 26, 2026

China's scholars must stop scolding Singapore immediately.中国学者必须立即停止对新加坡的指责。

 拿着中国的奖学金 Názhe zhōngguó de jiǎngxuéjīn Holding a Chinese scholarship,

转头骂新加坡是比人多 Zhuǎn tóu mà xīn jiā pō shì bǐ rén duō Turning around, they criticize Singapore for having more people.

在地铁里标榜自己高贵 Zài dìtiě lǐ biāobǎng zìjǐ gāoguì  flaunting one's superiority on the subway 

潮笑新加坡人低贱 Cháo xiào xīnjiāpō rén dījiàn Laughing at Singaporeans for being lowly

这几年这种端起碗吃饭 Zhè jǐ nián zhè zhǒng duān qǐ wǎn chīfàn In recent years, this kind of "holding the bowl and eating"

放下碗骂娘的事儿还少吗 Fàngxià wǎn màniáng de shì er hái shǎo ma Aren't there plenty of cases of people cursing their mothers after putting down their bowls?

我就想问一句 Wǒ jiù xiǎng wèn yījù I just want to ask one question

如果新加坡真做过伤天害理的事 Rúguǒ xīnjiāpō zhēn zuòguò shāngtiānhàilǐ de shì If Singapore has truly done something heinous, 

你骂的再狠 Nǐ mà de zài hěn No matter how harsh your insults are

我都拍平叫好 Wǒ dū pāi píng jiàohǎo I applauded and cheered.

事实Dàn shìshí shì But the truth is

近百年来 Jìn bǎinián lái For nearly a century

新加坡不仅没害过中国 Xīnjiāpō bùjǐn méi hàiguò zhōngguó Singapore has never harmed China.








On a Chinese scholarship, then calls Singapore "more dogs than people".  Boasts of superiority on the subway, mocks Singaporeans as lowly. These years, such "bite the hand that feeds you" hypocrisy is all too common. I just want to ask: If Singapore truly committed heinous acts, no matter how harshly you curse, I'd applaud. But the fact is, in the past century, Singapore not only never harmed China,



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 SESSION 3 

PART 3: MUHAMMAD OR JESUS? TWO DIFFERENT FOUNDERS 


Chapter 9 "The Council of Nicaea" 

1. What did Christianity experience before and after the Edict of Milan in AD 313? 

2. At the Council of Nicaea in AD 325 what was the controversial view of Arius? 

3. What is the popular Muslim misconception about the Council of Nicaea and Jesus? 

4. What is the "fundamental fact" that separates Muhammad from Jesus in the understanding of the Islam and Christianity? 


Chapter 10 "Comparing the Messenger and the Messiah" 

1. When Nabeel hears Muslims say, "We respect Jesus, but you Christians do not respect Muhammad," what are those Muslims really saying? 

2. What did you learn about God coming to be among us from Nabeel's teachings from the first chapter of the Gospel of John? 

3.What is the "hypostatic union" and how does it support the Christian view of Jesus the Messiah? 

4. What is the role of the Prophet Muhammad and the hadith in the life of the Muslim believer? 

SESSION 3 

Chapter 11 "Questioning the God-Man" 

1. How would you answer this question from Sahar, a Muslim woman, "How can you believe Jesus is God if he was born through the birth canal of a woman and that he had to use the bathroom? Aren't these things below God?" 

2. How do you answer a Muslim who asks, "If Jesus is God, and God died, who was ruling the universe?" 

3. Why is God not unjust in punishing Jesus for others' sins? 

4. Why does Nabeel ask, "Sahar, let's imagine that you are on your way to a very important ceremony and are dressed in your finest clothes. You are about to arrive just on time, but then you see your daughter drowning in a pool of mud. What would you do? Let her drown and arrive looking dignified, or rescue her but arrive at the ceremony covered in mud?" 

Chapter 12 "Libya's Best Friend" 

1. What is Ronnie Smith's story and how does it relate to a discussion of Islam and Christianity? 

2. What motivated Ronnie Smith and his family to move to Libya? 

3. How was Jesus' teaching and life an Example for Ronnie Smith? 

4. What do feel reading Ronnie's wife ending sentence in a letter to her husband's killers, "Ronnie loved you because God loves you. Ronnie loved you because God loved him-not because Ronnie was so great, but because God is so great"?

SESSION 4 

PART 4: THE QURAN OR THE BIBLE? TWO DIFFERENT SCRIPTURES 

Chapter 13 "The Burning of Scripture" 

1. In 2011 what senseless violence happened in Mazar-e-Sharif, considered a safe city in Afghanistan, and what caused the deaths of 12 innocent people? 

2. In 2009 what happened at Bagram Airfield in Afghanistan when "the US government officially announced that the Bibles were trash,and accordingly they were burned"? 

3. Rather than caricatures of Muslims and Christians regarding their holy books, what compelling reality does Nabeel offer regarding the two faiths and their holy books? 

Chapter 14 "Comparing the Quran and the Bible" (Because this is a lengthy, significant chapter, more questions will be asked.) 

1. What must Westerners know about Islam that makes the thought of burning a copy of the Quran a highly inflammatory insult to Muslims? 

2. While Christians do not suggest or like the idea of burning Bibles, what is one reason why Christians do not riot and murder when the Bible is treated as trash by US military officials? 

3. How would your view of the Quran be changed if you believed it to be"the closest thing on earth to the incarnation of Allah"? 

4. How would you describe the differences in the composition of the Quran and the Bible?

5. How would you summarize the Christian view of the Bible? 

6. Is the Islamic practice of "abrogation"? 

7. When Nabeel discusses "the sufficiency of Scripture," how does this apply to the Quran? What guides most Islamic practices? 

8. How would you contrast the Muslim and Christian views regarding "why" they believe and"what" they believe 

Chapter 15 "Questioning Texts" 

1. What are the stories of Ahmed Deedat and Zakir Naik and what is their main argument for the superiority of the Quran over the Bible? 

2. Why is this observation important in the Muslim/Christian debate: "The Quran is written in one uniform style, whereas the Bible is written in many genres"? 

List at least four contradictions within the Quran (see page 120). 

3. How does Nabeel, using 1 Peter as an example, answer the Muslim charge about "wholesale omissions or insertions of New Testament teachings, [andl intentional alterations by ruling powers"? 

Chapter 16 "The First Burning of the Quran" 

1. What did Caliph Uthman do and why did he do it? What does this reveal about human control over the Quran in human history? 

2. What is Nabeel's personal story about the impact of the Quran and the impact of the Bible on him at a significant moment in his life? 


SESSION 5 

PART 5: JIHAD OR THE CRUSADES? TWO DIFFERENT HOLY WARS 

Chapter 17 "The First Crusade" 

1. How did President Bill Clinton advance the growing popular understanding of the (first) Christian Crusades to take back the holy land? 

2.Why was the 9/11 attack in 2001 a very difficult experience for patriotic American Muslims? 

3. Contrary to the popular view, how could Crusade scholar Thomas Madden write, "The crusades were in every way a defensive war"? 

4. Why does Nabeel confess, "Considering the historical realities, the common Muslim perspective of the Crusades-the perspective I inherited-is a modern invention"? 

Chapter 18 "Comparing the Traditions of the Founders" 

1. What did you think when Nabeel asked a Muslim friend at a conference in Washington, D. C. on July 4,2009,"So if we were in a Muslim country right now, would you kill me?" and the friend responded,"Yes, I would kill you right now. It is the command of the Prophet (SAW)"? 

2. Why does Nabeel write, "But in order to follow a peaceful Islam, one has to ignore or reject vast swaths of traditions from Muhammad's life as well as virtually the entire history of Islamic jurisprudence"? 

3.What was one of Augustine's contributions to the Christian understanding of war?



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You are not broken. But you are carrying something heavy.

 Maybe it has a name — trauma, abuse, loss, betrayal. Maybe it is harder to define than that: a feeling you have lived with for so long that it has started to feel like who you are. Either way, you picked up this book because something in you is still looking for a way through.

Journey to Healing is a guide for anyone — man or woman — who is ready to stop surviving and start recovering. It does not offer quick fixes or empty encouragement. Instead, it gives you something rarer: honest answers, practical tools, and the deep reassurance that the God who made you has not abandoned you in the hardest chapters of your story.


Across eight chapters, you will discover:

• Why trauma is not a weakness — and why your responses to it have always made sense


• How the patterns that once protected you may now be keeping you stuck


• Practical, evidence-based tools for calming your nervous system and rebuilding safety


• How to move through grief and anger without being consumed by them


• What the Holy Spirit's specific role is in healing — and how to access it


• How to rebuild a true identity after trauma has tried to define you


• What reconnection, trust, and genuine living look like after deep pain


• How to sustain healing for the long journey — and what "living undefeated" actually means

This book holds together what is too often separated: the best of modern trauma research, and the deep, tested faith that knows God heals. It is written for the person who is tired of being told to "just pray" on one side, and who knows that therapy alone cannot reach the deepest places on the other.


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"Because I looked for a book that held both the science and the faith together — and when I could not find it, I wrote it."

You are not broken. But you are carrying something heavy.

 Maybe it has a name — trauma, abuse, loss, betrayal. Maybe it is harder to define than that: a feeling you have lived with for so long that it has started to feel like who you are. Either way, you picked up this book because something in you is still looking for a way through.

Journey to Healing is a guide for anyone — man or woman — who is ready to stop surviving and start recovering. It does not offer quick fixes or empty encouragement. Instead, it gives you something rarer: honest answers, practical tools, and the deep reassurance that the God who made you has not abandoned you in the hardest chapters of your story.

 

Across eight chapters, you will discover:

 

• Why trauma is not a weakness — and why your responses to it have always made sense

• How the patterns that once protected you may now be keeping you stuck

• Practical, evidence-based tools for calming your nervous system and rebuilding safety

• How to move through grief and anger without being consumed by them

• What the Holy Spirit's specific role is in healing — and how to access it

• How to rebuild a true identity after trauma has tried to define you

• What reconnection, trust, and genuine living look like after deep pain

• How to sustain healing for the long journey — and what "living undefeated" actually means

 

This book holds together what is too often separated: the best of modern trauma research, and the deep, tested faith that knows God heals. It is written for the person who is tired of being told to "just pray" on one side, and who knows that therapy alone cannot reach the deepest places on the other.

You do not have to choose between science and faith. You do not have to choose between honesty and hope. This book refuses to make you choose.

 

If you are ready to begin — or to begin again — this is your map.

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4. What intrinsic reason separates Allah from Yahweh regarding relationships with people? 

Chapter 7 "Questioning Complexity" 

1. What does quantum physics have to do with the differences between Islam's view of one God and the Christian view of one God? 

2. What is the very significant theological problem with Allah being "relational," that is, how can Allah be called Allah the Merciful or Allah the Gracious? Why is this not a problem for the Trinity? 

3. What is the shema? How can Christians account for the shema of Deuteronomy 6:4 and still believe in the Trinity? 

4. What do some notable Jewish scholars teach about Jewish views of God in Jesus' day? 

The Shema is the central Jewish declaration of faith, derived from the first word of Deuteronomy 6:4 ("Hear, O Israel").  The verse states: "Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD is one." This passage asserts the monotheistic belief in the uniqueness and singularity of God, establishing Him as the exclusive ruler and object of loyalty for Israel. 

The command to "love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might" follows immediately in verse 5, requiring undivided devotion and obedience.  In Jewish tradition, the Shema is recited daily during morning and evening prayers, often expanded to include Deuteronomy 11:13–21 and Numbers 15:37–41.  It serves as both a pledge of allegiance to God and a foundational instruction to teach these truths diligently to children and integrate them into daily life. 

Chapter 8 "Do Muslims and Christians Worship the Same God?" 

1. How are the views of God in Islam and Christianity "diametrically opposed"? What texts in the Quran support your answer? 

2. How does the Islamic model of theism promote service to others, yet the Christian model of theism "goes further still" to intrinsically require service to others? 

3. Nabeel writes, "People ought to be selflessly loving because it is who we are." How does he support that truth? 

4. Why is belief in the Trinity not just a"theological curiosity"? 


surrender will be your new way of living

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The question now is, will you walk in it? Many people surrender in a moment, but days later they fall back into old patterns of control, doubt, and hesitation. But you are not going back. You are moving forward. From this day on, surrender will be your new way of living. The Holy Spirit will not just be a part of your life. He will be the One leading every step. Your greatest breakthrough is not coming. It has already begun. The supernatural is now your reality. Miracles will follow you. Divine encounters will surround you. 

Clarity will replace confusion. Peace will replace striving. Fear will be replaced by boldness. God has been waiting for this moment. Now it's your turn to respond. No more hesitation, no more questioning, no more resisting. You have fully surrendered. And now it is time to walk in everything the Holy Spirit has prepared for you. This is the beginning of something greater than you can imagine. Step into it. Walk in it. Live in it. The Holy Spirit has been waiting for you. Now it's time to ... .....