You should be old enough to realize this, by your 35th birthday:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
2. Silence is better than unnecessary drama.
3. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.
4. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.
5. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.
6. Free yourself from society's advice because most of them have no idea what they're doing.
7. Most people drift through life.
They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent.
Learn their needs and lead them.
8. It's better to have 1 friend who's:
Happy for you
Supports your wins
Encourages your dreams
Than a bunch of acquaintances who are:
Lazy
Self-centred
Jealous of your success
9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.
10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.
11. Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.
12. You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.
If you made it this far, congrats, you're part of the 1% who finish what they start.
This is a major trait for success.
Believe in your heart and soul that you are capable of big things in your life.
The only thing that is standing in your way is yourself.
Remove Your Glass Ceiling.
13. I should review above reminders on my 70th birthday, February 2033. 👌🏼
Nothing, just keep living as well as I can until my battery runs out. 没什么，我只是尽可能地生活下去，直到我的电池耗尽。
Addendum:
1. Befriend, hire, encourage, and work with and for high integrity people. You can build success with high integrity people. Low integrity, untrustworthy people might still be useful many times but inevitably they will engage in some low activity that destroys more value than they ever helped create.
2. Intelligence is good but it is important that it comes in two forms. Most of the focus in defining intelligence is on what I would call Quick Intelligence - people who are quick to learn, quick to see implications, quick to come to conclusions. This is great on multiple choice exams and some life situations. But someone who is not as quick can just work longer in many situations and come up with equivalent performance. The second form of intelligence is the ability to array the facts and keep thinking about them more and more deeply. This is Pondering intelligence. Ponderers can start out with the same facts, reason after a time to the same conclusion as Quick Intelligence people but can continue to think through until they eventually figure out things that the quick people missed. Many of the greatest scientists succeeded out of Pondering than Quickness, ditto for the greatest stock analysts and some of the greatest innovators. The quick image of the Ponderer is the old Columbo TV show. The key thing is that most Quick Intelligence is genetic, inborn and it is hard to move up this sort of measure so pertinent to IQ tests. But developing Pondering Intelligence is a CHOICE, you can choose to develop the habit of thinking very deeply. And sometimes this leads to really hitting the jackpot. Personally I was born with great Quick Intelligence and thrived on it for the early few decades of my life but eventually from observation of great scientists I worked with I learned that I can achieve more by pondering on important issues.
3. WISDOM , KNOWLEDGE, UNDERSTANDING these you need and love always.
4. Power Thinking
Power Living
Power Walking
Power Speaking
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