Sunday, April 16, 2017

Faster EFT style so you can get faster and greater changes in life

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I like to help people . People ask me, "How do you tap, Robert?"
How do you do the FasterEFT  style?"

Well, the FasterEFT style is very simple.

What you do is you just notice inside you that something bothers you. I mean, you can feel it. You may have have a memory of it. You may have a picture in your mind o you can remember what happened. 

And then what you do is you tap. Now, the deal with the tapping is aiming. Now, the tapping is the easiest part.

So, paying  attention to what it is inside you that bothers you. That's the subtlest part. Looking at your memories, looking and noticing your body. 

Now, like if you have the feeling inside your body, like, "I am angry", and you feel a tightness in your chest, or you feel it in your stomach, you just notice it. 

And the, what you do is you tap. Now, the taping points are very,  very simple. Between the the eye brows .. beside your eye .. under the eye... the collarbone, which is about where the necklace would hang.. I usually do it like this...and then grab you wrist. 

EFT Meridian Points



You grab it both sides, and then you take a deep breath. [DEEP BREATH] And say "peace".

Now what you can do with this "peace" is also .. find a peaceful memory as well. Something that makes you feel good. And then take a deep breath, then you close your eyes and go back there and notice (aiming) and pretend like you're there, feel the feelings of peace and then grab your wrist. {Take a DEEP BREATH] Say "Peace." That way, you create an emotional association to it.

Now, you can use any other word. Now, I usually use"peace" because it create peace, but you can use any word. I mean, if you have a memory .. that has.. has harmony .. or may have .. "Show time!", or any word that makes you feel good. Now you can use that one as well. 

And so .. what you do is you aim at what bothers you. You're feeling in your body again ... a memory of what happened, you think about the person, you may look at what they did, you may notice how you respond to it, you may hear what they said, and just aim at that. So noticing it. Notice what it is and all you do is tap.

And what you do when you're tapping is you say, "I release and let it go.  I release and let it go. I release and let it go. I release and let it go. It's safe to let it go." Take a deep breath.. [ INHALING] blow it out.. [EXHALING] and "peace". 

And then , you go back and you check and make sure it's gone. Has the feeling-score shifted from say, 8/10 to 5/10 ? If it isn't gone yet, then you do tapping it again. 

So, you notice what's left . If you notice anything left -- now, often times, it'll start shifting and changing, just keep tapping until ... the sensation... has completely changed or dissolved out of nothing.
If it .. and often times, you do it tapping enough, it's gonna change to a positive. Now, if it isn't positive, you keep tapping on it until you make it positive.  

A good example would be like ... for example, your boss said something that hurt your feelings. Or your parent said something, and you feel hurt. And so, you keep tapping at what she said -- the words and the feelings you felt and the emotions --- and then you get to the point where you can't hear the same, you can't feel the same, and then you can change the memory. Change it to where she said something positive. That way, you feel good about it. You may send her love and peace and make her feel better about it. 

So, first of all .. you feel it, you tap it until it's gone. And then you double-check, make sure it's all gone. So then, you keep tapping -- now, for some people what's gonna happen is you're gonna have to tap on this memory or this experience over and over again until it's gone. 

It may take you 10 minutes. It may take you 15 minutes. It may take you  an hour or it may take you two weeks. The deal is, look at what it is that bothers you : look at the person, notice the memory, notice the experience -- and keep tapping.

Now, for some people, you'll have a flood of memories coming in. 
well, when you have a flood of memories coming in, just keep tapping, you know, dealing them one by one, until they shift from intense to lesser or gone. Close your eyes and keep tapping until it's gone one by one. Take a deep breath, blow it out, and say, "peace", and then go back to the peaceful feeling.

Now , while you're tapping, what I want you to notice ... is , when you're tapping, I want you to notice your fingertips touching your face. Feel your fingertips tapping(between the eyes brows ) and say "Let it go ... let it go..." Feel your fingertips tapping(the side of  eyes ) and say "Let it go ... let it go..." Feel your fingertips tapping(under the eyes , directly in line with the pupil) and say "Let it go ... let it go..." Feel your fingertips tapping( the collar bone ) and say "Let it go ... let it go..." Just feel your fingertips, that's right. And grab you wrist ...[INHALING] blow it out...[EXHALING] "PEACE" , go to your peaceful memory, feel good ...then, what you can do is, as you practise this, then you can practise it and .. practise and tap in other ways.  

So then, what you do is you think about something that bothers you,  you notice that it bothers you, and .. I always say, close your eyes and just notice it, and then feel your fingers tapping between your eyes brow , feel the fingers -- now MEMORIZE WHAT THIS FEELS LIKE. And then in your mind, stop tapping but pretend like you're still tapping, and feel your fingers ''tapping" the point, and  saying "Let it go." Then you the same for the side of the eye(s), feel your fingers tapping... stop tapping ... feel your fingers tapping as if you were still tapping, you can tap again -- that means you're memorizing the feeling of tapping, saying "Let it go." All the way, just continue tapping, continue tapping, "Let it go", "Let it go", deep breath ...[INHALING], blow it out, and "peace".  

And then what you can do is you go back and you notice what's left, notice your emotions and feelings, and then you mentally tap.
So, in your mind, pretend like you feel your fingers tapping. That's right..."Let it go", "Let it go", keep mentally tapping , "Let it go", "Let it go", grab your wrist in your mind ....[ DEEP BREATH] and "peace'/ "harmony' / joy /(your own choice of word)

Then you can do mental tapping with your eyes open in your mind - "Let it go", "Let it go", deep breath ...[INHALING], blow it out, and "peace".  

Now, it's really nice that you can do this mentally-tapping, because you could be in a meeting. And here it is, this person during the meeting could be irritating or triggering you. And so, you could be just smiling and looking at them. ( Mentally taping from top of head right through to the collarbone ) And then you just think you're listening, but actually you're healing yourself. 
So, mentally tapping, physical tapping. And if you don't like it ....to do either one, you could covertly tap. 

Now, I created this tapping technique after a friend of mine. So, what he would do is he would do something like this. Start from the eye- brow, fingers continuous mentally tapping. It's called the slight Tom Tarr technique.  So, it's just kind of like this: something as simple as this. 

So, again : you can tap many ways, and the most important part about the tapping is not the tapping! It's aiming at inside you! Noticing what it is inside you that bothers you. 

And the most powerful part about your healing is your ability to be persistent. So, I always say "Tap until it's gone... or until you pass out" __ whichever comes first. 

And make sure you don't pass out while you're driving ... Tap and be smart with your tapping. Because the most important thing about you is learning to like you and be nice to you

My often the favorite place to do tapping usually may favourite place is while I drive. Because, you know, you can drive and tap. People drink their water and tap. You know, they do a lot of things and  do tapping simultaneously. If you're in a business meeting or someone's irritating you,  you can mentally tap ... you can covertly tap ... You could say, "One second, I got to go to the loo...[WHISPERING] "I'll be right back." And while you're in there, do tapping the points feel your fingers, "let it go...let it go...let it go...let it go." (DEEP BREATH] and "peace'. And you keep tapping until you get full emotional control. 

So, tapping until it's gone or until you pass out, whichever comes first. And I guarantee you, either way , you'll come out a winner. You'll come out on top. 

So , how do you tap?  It's very simple. Aiming is the most important part. Tapping is the deal and just be persistent, keep working on it (issue) or them (issues, one specific by one specific), keep tapping until it's gone. 

And when you do this, everything will be better. 

This is Soong See Choo. I hope this make it easy for you.
Because the easier it is, the more likely you'll use it. And I guarantee it works. 

These tapping points that I used I have been using for 9 or 10 years, it's one of the fastest and easiest in the cleanest and the least craziest looking way. 

So, keep tapping on yourself, take complete ownership and honourship in your emotional freedom. 
Love yourself and be nice to yourself, clean up everything inside your mind, tap in the heat of the moment! And you whole life from today, will begin to change for the better. 

It's nice talking to you. 

Talk to you , later. Bye! 

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